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	<title>Remaining Relevant &#187; goodbye</title>
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		<title>And then there was&#8230;</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 02 Feb 2006 03:36:46 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Lichen Rancourt</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Isn&#8217;t it everyone&#8217;s greatest wish that someone will look at us, not even look, just glance, and see our potential? To be judged, not by what we&#8217;ve achieved, but what we might achieve. It would be a blessing in any of life&#8217;s facets and I was fortunate to run across it, professionally, in May of [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Isn&#8217;t it everyone&#8217;s greatest wish that someone will look at us, not even look, just glance, and see our potential?  To be judged, not by what we&#8217;ve achieved, but what we might achieve.  It would be a blessing in any of life&#8217;s facets and I was fortunate to run across it, professionally, in May of 2004.  It was then that I sat in a room, bruised and uncertain, and tried to talk three men into paying me money to do a job I was barely qualified to do.  I didn&#8217;t think I had a chance and for that reason, I just went for it.  I tried to exploit the few skills I did have, but when one question stumped me, answered, &#8220;I&#8217;m really looking forward to expanding my skillset enough to answer that with confidence.&#8221;  I actually did a little dance (not joking) when the phone rang and I was offered the position as web manager, but then sat down with my new boss on my first day:</p>
<blockquote><p>&#8220;listen, I know it&#8217;s a bit late for this, but I&#8217;m afraid I may have over-represented my skills.&#8221;
<p />God bless his soul, he said, &#8220;Do you love libraries?&#8221;
<p />&#8220;Yes.&#8221;
<p /> &#8220;Do you have a vision for their future in the digital world?&#8221;
<p /> &#8220;As a matter of fact I do.&#8221;
<p />  &#8220;Do you want to learn how to do it?&#8221;
<p /> &#8220;I would love to.&#8221;
<p /> &#8220;Then you didn&#8217;t misrepresent a thing.&#8221;</p></blockquote>
<p>And with that I became the forth member of the systems department.   During the subsequent year the gentlemen I worked with treated me with kindness, patience, and respect that I&#8217;ve never known in a team before.   At a time in my life when stability was simply non-existent, these men provided a firm foundation&#8230; professionally and personally.</p>
<p><a href="http://oz.plymouth.edu/~daberona/">David</a> accepted a fantastic new job as director of the <a href="http://oz.plymouth.edu/~daberona/">Plymouth State Library</a> <a href="http://www.remainingrelevant.net/remaining/44">last july</a>.  David was like a dad &#8211; he protected me.</p>
<p>Tim gave notice in <a href="http://www.remainingrelevant.net/remaining/40">September</a>, moving on to <a href="http://www.pcconnection.com">PCConnection</a> and work more relevant to his training.  Tim comforted and taught me; capable and unflappable, nothing could go wrong with Tim there.</p>
<p><a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/thegloaming/94329280/" title="Photo Sharing"><img src="http://static.flickr.com/37/94329280_50de7e920b_m.jpg" width="240" height="180" alt="Chocolate Therapy" class="img left" /></a></p>
<p>Today was the end of an era, the final of the three&#8217;s last.  Pete was my office gramp.  He even supplied abundant quarters and small bills for the vending machine on trying days.  He made me laugh when I got tense.  He scoured the building for candy and treats and shared the spoils.  A mere mention of a concern prompted phone calls, google searches, whatever he could do to solve a problem.</p>
<p>It wasn&#8217;t just me &#8211; this is just the kind of guys these are &#8211; they did these things, or things like them, for all the staff in the library.  I&#8217;m awfully fortunate to have worked closely with them for awhile.  They saw me as more than a resume and its contents, they gambled on me and  while sad to see them go, with what they taught me I&#8217;m confident that I&#8217;ll have no trouble carrying on.</p>
<p>Pete insisted that he did not want a farewell party &#8211; he&#8217;s does not relish the spotlight.  But that type of event is just as much for those being left as those leaving &#8211; it&#8217;s part of the process&#8230; So, last night I made super chocolatey, peanut butter cupcakes and left them in a high traffic area (read: NOT systems) with a note: &#8216;To ease the pain of Pete&#8217;s departure.&#8221;</p>
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